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December 30th, 2006

The Heart of a Coach

I read this in one of my morning meditations this week.  Considering Ronn and I are both coaches, but in different capacities it was particularly meaningful to both of us.

Who coaches you?  What older, wiser, and more experienced person stands on the sidelines of your life and watches with the big picture in mind?  A coach doesn’t try to run the race for you.  No, he sets the standard for the race and makes a judgment on your performance.  Who does this for you?  Who stretches your mind?  Who makes you wince as they expose the many faces of your ignorance; who will not let you get away with spiritual and intellectual superficiality.  Who listens to and encourages your dreams?  Dreams are not intellectual propositions that must be proven.  They are the work of visionaries; they are out-of-the-box, frequently awful and occasionally good.  These are the folks who, when others laugh and say you’re trying to build castles in the air, remind you that God “calls those things which be not, as though they are.”

In short, we cannot discover ourselves by ourselves.

December 25th, 2006

Be Just Me

I have moved this poem to Life Wonderments, another blog I created as a space for my writings and wonderments.

Click here to link directly to this poem.

December 24th, 2006

Reflections

I suppose when we continuously reflect on our life with eyes of gratitude, it amazes even us. Not in the sense that we have such a more fabulous life than anyone else, but in the sense that sometimes it is easy to fall into the Too Good To Be True trap of life. Like when you find yourself asking “Can life really be this good?” Not because all of our problems went away, but because we have learned that we can choose to look at them as opportunities. In short, perspective really does make a huge difference. Although it’s not all the difference. There is still other work to be done to maintain a life of prosperity, rather than frustration.

Just in the few recent months, we have had so many great experiences and opportunities, that to reflect on the whole year becomes a little overwhelming. In the last few weeks, Ronn and his dad won (along with a whole team of people, of course) the State Championship their first time coaching together. I got to learn a new art — digital photography. You can see some of my commentary on my experience at What I Learned About Football.

Ronn also bought a new MacBook computer, which he has been dying to have for years, so he is in computer heaven. But I am too, because I got a new computer out of the deal–a smaller, but faster one. What a deal! Although, after checking out his Mac, I probably won’t be too far behind him getting one. His computer is just rad, simply put. And yes, I inventoried that word and I am pretty sure it’s been 10 years, at least, since I have used that word to describe something that is way cooler than the word “cool” can describe. But hey, if it fits, use it!.

Thanks to our friend Gail Essex, Ronn and I had the opportunity to do a restaurant review for a magazine that you know and love, but that we can’t name because we are supposed to remain anonymous. What a blast that was! And then they asked us to do it again! Rad, is what that is!

In the last two months, Ronn and I have had the opportunity to become regular columnists in the new Good Times magazine, the Arts & Entertainment guide for West Texas. Believe it or not, there really is stuff to do in West Texas and if you don’t believe us, pick up a copy at your favorite bookstore, restaurant or pub. Their calendar of events is one of the best I have ever seen. Ronn and I have a column called Rubber Side Down. It has to do with motorcycling, hence the name! Thanks to our friend Gilbert Cadena for his stroke of genius on the name. We are really excited about that because it gives us the opportunity to spread the love–the love of riding motorcycles!

All throughout the year, I get the privilege of working with people to help them pursue their dreams because that is my business. But in the last couple of months, Ronn and I have had the privilege of working together with some people that we really care about alot and helping them to pursue their dreams. Our friend Cynthia Clack is going to high places with her Eye of the Tiger: An International Rock Opera. She has an invitation from the Chinese government to go perform her story throughout China. WOW! As if that isn’t enough to blow your socks off, we get to be involved, to boot!

Then there are our friends Josh Fee & Anthony Montanino, the artists of Dim Lit DayLight. We have had the privilege or working with them toward their dreams and aspirations as they tour the country sharing their lyrical poetry with their fans. And yes, it really is lyrical poetry. Very rarely do I find myself listening to the lyrics of songs. Usually, I am just listening to the music and, thru repitition, I occasionally learn a few words to the chorus. But with these guys, you can’t help but listen to the lyrics. It’s the lyrics that draw you in and the music is just a bonus.

And then there is my friend Wallace Craig, fellow photographer and blogger. It always amazes me how you can spend time around someone in one setting and never know you are crossing paths with them in another. But that is what happened with Wallace and me. He has alot going on. You can check out one of his blog sites, Streams, which, to the best we can tell, is the oldest blog in Midland. He also has a photoblog where you can see some of his work. You can also check out Big Gold Dog (Wallace loves Golden Retrievers), where you can link into alot of his other photowork, such as one of my personal faves, New Mexico. There are lots of others, trust me! I told you he had alot going on! Maybe in 2007, I’ll start a photoblog, too–with Wallace’s help!

So that’s just the last few months. What about the rest of the year? Hmmmm…… Well, in September I got to ride Pulchritude (my motorcycle…her name means amazing beauty) to see my parents in Beaumont. What a trip! And yes, the pun was intended. It was a great trip, but it was also a trip! I am convinced there is such a thing as motorcycle therapy. I know there is because I watched myself experience it! You can read more about my trip in our Travel Blogs section.

In June, I rode to Dallas for a client’s grand opening, but got to ride with another client while I was there. You can read about that adventure here.

I suppose this post would not be complete without mentioning that we bought two motorcycles this year, which is where all this began. We bought motorcycles in April, again with the help of our friend Gilbert Cadena, and started Piglet Paper in June. Here’s our plug for Gilbert….If you want to buy a motorcycle, well a Harley anyway….GO SEE GILBERT!

I also started writing poetry this year. Not really sure how that happened. Just one of those things where the words employed me to write them. You can read a few snippets here. There are still others I need to post, but haven’t yet.

Ronn and I took some road trips this year, both on 4 wheels and 2 wheels. Those are always good, because somehow when I get away I remember what I already know and just forgot–to not take life so serious. I surrender the paraphernalia of life and just enjoy the present. Road trips, even if you are on 4 wheels, are still great therapy.

Our own personal growth this year can’t go without mentioning. It is because of our personal growth that we have been able to do many of the things we have done. With such a full year, we have learned that opportunities come from growth and sometimes they are just opportunities FOR growth.

I am sure there are things that right now I am forgetting, that are worth mentioning, but in the interest of brevity (as brief as I can be, which Ronn says isn’t very brief) I will close. We just know that 2006 was a FABULOUS year that came with lots of growth, but lots of rewards. So if growth precedes reward, we intend to do alot of growing in 2007. Perhaps the place we could start is blogging more throughout the year, instead of at the end of the year?!?!

We’re off to unwrap the PRESENT(s)! TTFN!

December 24th, 2006

Spreading Christmas Cheer!

This is the creation of Mack Collier at Viral Garden.  It’s called the “Z-Lister Meme,” , and it is insanely brilliant!  You can read the testimonials Mack has posted at Viral Garden here.

I thought it would be great to include some of the local blogs I frequent as a sort of Christmas gift to them in the hopes that it will increase the traffic to their blogs.

For our regular readers, this is an opportunity for you to explore some other interesting blogs out there.  And a chance for us to thank you for your help this year in the development of Piglet Paper.
Want to join in the fun!  Simply cut and paste the entire list below to a post on your blog, feel free to add a few of your own favorites, and overnight, you will have dozens of bloggers–new readers and new friends–flocking to your blog.  It’s as easy as that!

Remember, don’t add your own blog.  Someone else will give you that gift!

Streams
Eclectic Photography
Sleepless in Midland
Jessica’s Well
Fireant Gazette
Sounding Forth
Sticky Door Knobs
Archaeo Texture
West Texas TV
Bloggin’ Bert
Midland Blog
Talking Story

Creative Think
Soloride
Movie Marketing Madness
Blog Till You Drop!
Get Shouty!
One Reader at a Time
100 Bloggers
Critical Fluff
The New PR
Simple Rich
Own Your Brand!
OTOInsights
bizandbuzz
Work, in Plain English
Buzz Canuck
New Millenium PR
Pardon My French
The Instigator Blog
AENDirect
Diva Marketing
Marketing Hipster
The Marketing Minute
Funny Business
The Frager Factor
Mindblob
OrbitNow!
Open The Dialogue
Word Sell
Note to CMO:
That’s Great Marketing!
Shotgun Marketing Blog
BrandSizzle
bizsolutionsplus
Customers Rock!
Being Peter Kim
Andy Nulman
Billions With Zero Knowledge
Working at Home on the Internet
MapleLeaf 2.0
Darren Barefoot
Two Hat Marketing

The Engaging Brand
The Branding Blog
CrapHammer
Drew’s Marketing Minute
Golden Practices
Viaspire
Tell Ten Friends
Flooring the Consumer
Kinetic Ideas
Unconventional Thinking
Buzzoodle
Conversation Agent
The Copywriting Maven
Hee-Haw Marketing
Scott Burkett’s Pothole on the Infobahn
Multi-Cult Classics
Logic + Emotion
Branding & Marketing
Carpe Factum
Steve’s 2 Cents
Simplicity
Popcorn n Roses
On Influence & Automation
Servant of Chaos
converstations
eSoup
Make it Great!
Presentation Zen
Dmitry Linkov
aialone
Urban Jacksonville
John Wagner
Nick Rice
CKs Blog
Design Sojourn
Frozen Puck
The Sartorialist
Small Surfaces
Africa Unchained
Perspective
gDiapers
Marketing Nirvana
Bob Sutton
¡Hola! Oi! Hi!
Shut Up and Drink the Kool-Aid!
Women, Art, Life: Weaving It All Together
Community Guy
Social Media on the fly
Jeremy Latham’s Blog
SMogger Social Media Blog
Masey.com

December 18th, 2006

What I Learned About Football

One other thing I have to say today, mainly because it’s been a week and Ronn hasn’t said anything. Perhaps it’s old news for you, but to us, it’s still NEWs.

Midland Christian won the State Championship a week ago Saturday! I have just been dying to write about the experience, but it’s really more Ronn’s glory than mine and I thought he might write about it. Maybe he still will.

I must admit football has never really been a focal point in my life primarily because I just didn’t understand it. But admitedly, I was focused on the wrong aspect of the game. I just never saw the point in a bunch of boys clanging helmets like antlers in pursuit of a ball. Today I know that the game of football is about much more than touchdowns and field goals. It’s about relationships. It seems as though, once again, I am reminded that the fruit of life is in relationships.

This season, I had the privilege of being down on the sidelines in and amongst the team. And I can’t really say while I was down there I built any relationships, but what I can say is I got to watch relationships being built. How often do we really ever get the privilege of truly watching something grow? I don’t know about you, but I am usually too busy for that.

Although football hasn’t been a source of passion for me, it has been for Ronn. And this year he decided to pursue one of his dreams. To coach with his dad. If I have learned something that I occasionally remember, it is that other people have interests and dreams different from mine. I wanted to be supportive of Ronn’s dreams, but I also recognize that you can cross one of those invisible lines from being supportive to being obnoxiously smothering and I didn’t want to do that. So what I did was embrace the idea of taking pictures of Ronn and his dad in action of their passion.

At first I was lost. Out of my comfort zone. Everything happened so fast and my camera was so slow. But as the season got seated in it’s groove, I began to discover the opportunity in the art. I began to figure out why I was down there. The conflict of trying to watch the game and take pictures of it became obviously ridiculous. I could watch the game from the stands, but I couldn’t capture a story from up there. I couldn’t witness all that goes into a game from a distance. At some point, although I can’t clearly tell you when, I realized that my purpose for being on the sidelines was to gain perspective. Perspective on football and what it’s really all about.

I must admit that I have never really aspired to take pictures, let alone pictures at football games. But such is the opportunity I was given, so I did what I could with a camera that was not designed for what I was doing. By improvising to the situation, adjusting to what was, I learned alot about things that now intrigue me, but I would have never selectively chosen.

I now have a new appreciation for the eye of a photographer. I learned that photography is the art of telling a story. Focusing on the things that most of us see in an instant and feel for a lifetime. Capturing the very essence of those split second expressions that mark a person’s life. You wouldn’t believe how hard that is! By the time I saw it, it was already gone. But with a determination to figure out this very thing that was eluding me, I buckled down and got serious about figuring out how to take pictures at football games with my ’slow, take forever, make your cheeks hurt from smiling so long’ camera.

I focused on the process and quit worrying about the results (i.e., the crappy pictures I was churning out game after game). The rewards I received in exchange for surrendering the results still amaze me. Not only did I end the season with some pretty good pics, but I also learned how to doctor those ‘could have been good, but missed it by a second’ pics.

Even more importantly than the pics, though, I now have the unforgettable experience of having walked in and amongst a team. A team of coaches. A team of young men. All in pursuit of something that each and every one of them believes in with all their hearts. I now understand that football is much more than clanging helmets to chase a ball, scoring touchdowns or kicking field goals. Football is about fighting for something you believe in. Football is about defending family. Pursuit of passion. Giving your all, even when you don’t think you have anything left. Integrity. Intensity. But most of all football is about relationships.

I had the privilege of witnessing these relationships for a moment in time. The pictures I can now give back will never repay the experience those coaches and young men gave me to just be a part, an insignificant part, of their team.

I now know what it’s like to be part of team!

December 18th, 2006

FUN! FUN! FUN!

I suppose I have learned (well, still learning would be more accurate) that being comfortable is not all it is cracked up to be. Everything comes with a price and the price for always being comfortable is a boring life. Been there, done that. But I have also been on the other extreme, where I sought discomfort, which may be more accurately described as chaos. Seeking chaos thinking it was spice. I am sure glad I have learned there is a different way! But, of course, there is always a different way. I just have to be willing to acknowledge it.

Someone once told me that my results are my intentions. If that is true, there have certainly been times where my intention clearly was to be right. Right in that there was no other way than my way. I wonder why my intention can’t be to find a better way? It would have been alot easier, because intending to be right got me results, but not any that I wanted.

So, lately there has been alot of discomfort. Not chaos, but rather growth. Perhaps that what healthy discomfort feels like. Being stretched, but knowing it will all be ok. I guess really it is all always ok, they key is in being ok on the way to ok. So I have been ok lately. Growing, but ok.

I got alot of phone calls on my Guard Your Peace article. It is always nice when people go out of their way to call you or complement you. But there were a few lessons in all of this for me. One lesson was that the accolades weren’t really about me, but about what I wrote. And what I wrote wasn’t what Lisa wanted to write. It is what my fingers typed, but not what I wanted to say. However, sometimes the God I pray to every morning actually answers my prayers and on this day he did. My prayer every morning is that He use my gifts and talents to be an instrument of His peace.

The truth is I really didn’t want to submit that article. That article is out of character for me. Submitting that article made me feel uncomfortable. People expect to hear about business related stuff from me, not how to manage thru the holidays. But gauged by the number of calls and comments it got, apparently that was exactly what people needed to hear. So my second lesson was it is so much easier just to follow Instructions.

I suppose as I sit here and think about it, nobody that ever changed the world changed the world because that’s what they set out to do. They changed the world because they just did the next right thing. They sought their truth. They clung to their truth. They followed Instructions!

My third lesson was what I know isn’t much. If it has been left up to me, I would have written about something entirely different, but my Faith told me to submit that article as it was, even when there was no evidence to support that was rational.

So I appreciate all of the feedback! I really do! I appreciate it because your feedback is confirmation that on that day I was willing to follow Faith instead of fear; that I was willing to be out of character because my character is changing; that I was willing to be an instrument of God’s peace.

Your feedback reminds me that I am growing. Growing in the right direction. It reminds me that my life is not about me, but rather that I am about my life. It reminds me that it’s the relationships that make the works important, not the works that make the relationship important. It reminds me that growth really can be FUN, if you choose to focus on the reward rather than the price.

Thanks for all that you do!

~Lisa

December 16th, 2006

Stuart Mason

Got another testimonial letter from a client in Dallas. Getting these always gives me the warm fuzzies and the hard realization that I really did make a difference.

Click Stuart Mason to read it!

December 6th, 2006

Rubber Side Down

Those of you in the Midland/Odessa area may want to pick up a copy of a new, local magazine entitled, Good Times, The Arts and Entertainment Guide of West Texas. But it is not just limited to West Texas as there are listings of events all over the state.

Lisa and I have what we expect to be a regular column in the rag called, ‘Rubber Side Down’. In case you don’t have access to the magazine, I have included a pdf of the article here.

Let us know what you think.

December 4th, 2006

Guard Your Peace

This is an unusual article in the sense that it really doesn’t have anything to do with business.  I didn’t start out to right an article like this, but true to the creative process, I just started writing and this is what resulted.  I trust that what I wrote was the message that was supposed to be delivered, although I personally questioned it and contemplated not publishing it.  Ultimately, I felt strongly that it was not my place to argue, but rather to just follow the directions I had been given.  So that is exactly what I did!

This article was published in the Midland Reporter-Telegram on Sunday, December 3, 2006.

View the entire article here.

Guard Your Peace [PDF, 203KB]

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